The same thing happens to my mother (who has had a very hard life).

And yet, all the neighbors envy her.

And she always had problems with envy in the neighborhood.

And she didn't understand it, because our father (her husband) left and she had to work hard.

Moral: the real strong people. The great anonymous heroes, never realize their greatness, and that itself is a characteristic of their greatness :-)

I'm sure you are great.

A virtual hug, Yolanda.