We all have things we loved in our childhood, right?

Ask your friend to write them all down in a column.

Then have him or her write down in another column which of those things, besides being passionate about, he or she is good at.

Finally, what

From this last column, ask him select the ones he could make a living at if he persevered.

There you have your bonfire :-)

I don't expect to convince you, but you may have to light fewer bonfires to find your vocation.

Thanks, Betty. I wish you a great week.